Perseverance!

  About a week ago, I read a blog post that talked about choosing a word for the new year over setting resolutions. Unfortunately with New Year resolutions, we make them in the last days of the old year but when we miss a day or two we give up on the resolution entirely. This is not to say that I didn't come up with any resolutions for this year- I did, but they all fall under the banner of my word for the year: Perseverance. In the past, I have been the kind of person who would start something and be all fired up about it for a couple of weeks and when I hit a rough patch, I would give up. Not this year. My 2010 resolution was to blog on a regular basis. I made it to October before that entirely fizzled out. So now I am starting anew again. .
  I know I am going to fail and that there will be at least a few days when I don't exercise like I vowed that I would or I find that I didn't write at all on a particular day. The important thing is not whether I exercised or wrote every day but that when I fail,  I pick myself back up and try again the next day as though I didn't fail yesterday. Just because I messed up one day it doesn't mean I will fail the next time I try. Unexpected things will happen and we shouldn't pretend or live as though they won't occur. All we can do is keep trying and hope that eventually, the "resolution" will become a habit that we don't have to try so hard at. I have already fallen behind on one of my resolutions but I've decided that today will be different. I will meet that goal today and God willing, maybe I will be able to meet it tomorrow too.

Depending on the Kindness of Strangers

  While we were grocery shopping last week, an incident occurred that has stayed with me. The last few months we have put ourselves on a budget in order to be debt free which means the majority of our grocery shopping is now being done at Winco. We bought our groceries and were heading out to the car when a young woman stepped into our path. At first we weren't quite sure what she was trying to tell us until I caught phrases like "single mom" "unemployed" and "hungry children." I have to say that at first I was skeptical of her story and assumed she was trying to con us out of money so she could go buy alcohol or cigarettes. In my mind, I pictured the woman outside of our local Costco who uses a sign to guilt people into giving her money she clearly doesn't need. My first thought was that this young woman would do better to beg at Costco than at Winco, where most people are trying to find a good bargain. I'm not proud to confess that I hid behind my husband so he would have to be the one to deal with her.
  As I watched her, I realized that she looked nothing like the woman outside of Costco. The woman in front of us looked like it might have been awhile since she had a good meal. It was possible her story could be true...
David told her we were on a budget but he offered her some of the bananas we'd bought. To our surprise she took them. As we left the parking lot we saw her talking to another customer...still holding tightly to the bananas.
  I know that there are a lot of people out there who will try to take advantage of us but I have come to realize that not every "down on our luck" story is necessarily untrue. As sad as it was that this woman had to beg for the sake of her children, I realized that she was not the only recipient of a gift. She gave us something back too. She restored my hope that not everyone is looking for a financial handout.

Special Needs Computer...and dog

  One of the most important tools for writing is a computer. Unfortunately my computer has...special needs. When my computer gets hot, it's been known to shut down right in the middle of what I've been working on and only after a lot of coaxing and a cooling off period will it consider turning back on. To make things worse, not long after we acquired our yorkie, he decided my computer cord was a great chew toy so now the only way my computer will work is if it is plugged into the cord all the time. Today, Hansel gave himself the shock of his life when he tried to chew on that same cord again. Apparently, when he chewed on it last he exposed some wire and in return he got a few volts of electricity coursing through his veins. After a few minutes of frenzied barking, we found the culprit so the only remedy now is electrical tape. Exposed wires are not a friend to canines or babies. Moral of the story: Never allow your young pup anywhere near your computer cord. Actual chew toys are much cheaper.